Not a rigid way of living, but a way of living that respects yourself and others.
Small but delicate actions express many things
Politeness is not too difficult to show, but there are also the smallest simple things that not everyone knows.
ELLE compiles some small communication arts for you to make life easier.
1. Never visit anyone without calling first
Before visiting someone’s house, call ahead to inform them
If you have ever encountered an unexpected visit, you will understand what it means to be `surprised` when the guest arrives at your door but you are still wearing a bathrobe and your feet are wearing cotton slippers.
2. Never wave an open parachute dry
You should close the umbrella and stand it in a corner.
This applies whether you are in the office or at someone else’s home.
3. Do not place your carry-on bag on a laptop or chair
A handbag can be hung on the back of the chair
A clutch should be placed gently on the table.
4. If the children in the house have their own room, you should knock on the door before entering
This helps create good habits for children. Whatever you do, they will imitate it.
5. You must pay close attention every time you mention 9 sensitive things
Pay close attention when it comes to sensitive things
The 9 things that ELLE wants to talk about are: age, family background, internal family matters, religion, health issues, love affairs, gifts, rumors and career.
6. In a movie theater, theater, or performance, when passing through rows of seats, you should face them
The important thing here is that you must face the other person when walking
There are always situations where your seat is in a row and you have to squeeze through a narrow path to get to your seat.
7. Saying bad things about someone when they are absent
Especially in this case, you should not speak ill of your lover to others.
Especially in this case, you should not speak ill of your lover to others.
8. Avoid talking too much about: politics, religion, health, money
If that friend still wants to know and mention it, answer frankly but gently
If you come across a question from a friend like: “This dress is so beautiful.
9. You are on a diet and refusing food will be considered rude
Same with alcohol, don’t tell people you can’t drink
In this case, tell everyone you are on a diet because if you refuse the offered food it will make everyone feel unhappy.
10. When taking the elevator, you should stand closest to the door
Imagine an elevator with only you but you are standing far away from the control panel, a person is running but can’t catch the elevator in time and you can only stand and watch.
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